You studied hard, but you failed the exam. You love her, but she won't return your calls.
The problem isn't that life is unfair; it's your BROKEN IDEA of FAIRNESS.
Take a proper look at that person. A person with years of experience being someone completely different to you. A real person who interacts with hundreds of other people every year.
You feel something for them? That might matter to you, but their decision is not about you.
Similarly we love to hate our bosses or politicians. It's true there are some truly awful and stupid figures. But they're not all evil. Most are just trying to do their best, under different circumstances to your own.
The problem isn't that life is unfair; it's your BROKEN IDEA of FAIRNESS.
Take a proper look at that person. A person with years of experience being someone completely different to you. A real person who interacts with hundreds of other people every year.
You feel something for them? That might matter to you, but their decision is not about you.
Similarly we love to hate our bosses or politicians. It's true there are some truly awful and stupid figures. But they're not all evil. Most are just trying to do their best, under different circumstances to your own.
from BusinessInsider
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